A Danish woman is being taken to court on allegations of harassment and defamation for referring to a trans-identified male with masculine pronouns. Lotte Ingerslev, a psychotherapist who is critical of gender ideology, “misgendered” Nadia Jacobsen while warning her female followers about the hardcore fetish pornography he produces.
On August 29, Ingerslev received a letter from Jacobsen’s attorney demanding she delete an article she had posted on her blog exposing his disturbing sexual behavior and his work consulting on “inclusivity” policies for the Danish Football Association (DBU). That article, originally published on March 6, was titled: “Man whose pornographic, fetish-focused videos are available for public viewing online helped draft DBU’s new ‘inclusive’ recommendations to allow men into girls’ changing rooms.”
The legal threat sent to Ingerslev also demanded she pay Jacobsen compensation of “no less than DKK 100,000” (approx. $14,000 USD), and accused her of harassment, defamation, and misgendering.
“Lotte Ingerslev has unlawfully violated Nadia Jacobsen’s privacy and honor by publishing on her website transkoen.dk an article that contains a number of information and images of an intimate nature, untrue claims, as well as by harassing Nadia Jacobsen in the article because of Nadia Jacobsen’s gender identity,” reads the letter, written by the lawyer Nikolaj Nielsen with the firm Kontra.
“As illustrated by the title of the article, Lotte Ingerslev chose to misgender Nadia Jacobsen throughout the blog post and consistently refer to Nadia Jacobsen as a man, as well as to use the pronouns he/his when she refers to Nadia Jacobsen in the third person,” it continues.
“In Danish law, it is generally recognized that deliberate misgendering of a trans person constitutes harassment.”
The lawyer further argued that Ingerslev’s decision to highlight Jacobsen’s homemade fetish pornography was done in an effort to “belittle” him, despite the fact that the content was posted online and available publicly. “The photos are completely irrelevant to Nadia Jacobsen’s voluntary work in advising and assisting sports organizations on inclusion and diversity, and the sharing had the sole purpose of belittling and harassing Nadia Jacobsen.”
Ingerslev’s blog post had documented the pornographic videos and images Jacobsen had posted to his social media and various fetish pornography websites. In one post made by Jacobsen to his now-defunct Tumblr account, nadiatv, he can be seen engaging with his male followers by way of gamifying his own sexual masochism.
The activity is known euphemistically as “sissy tasks” or “sissy challenges” and can involve a variety of sexual elements that the individual performing the activities promises to escalate in accordance with social media engagement.
In Jacobsen’s case, he had posted a photo of his genitals locked in a cage, or “chastity device,” while encouraging his followers to share the image. “I have gotten to a point where I don’t really want to masturbate like a boy anymore, so I will only be cumming like a woman,” Jacobsen wrote.
“To make it a little more interesting I am going to let you all decide for how long I should refrain from masturbating. I can’t wear a chastity cage all the time, but when I am home I will… For every ‘like’ you add one day. For every reblog you add 3 days… I will only come [sic] as a girl for the rest of my life.”
There are also several photos and videos of Jacobsen masturbating himself anally with a sex toy while pretending to be a woman and wearing lingerie. Within the transgender pornography fetish community, a man’s rectum is described using terms typically associated with female genitalia.
On Flickr, a platform well-known as a hub for men to share fetish photos and videos, Jacobsen is a member of nearly 200 fetish groups dedicated to the transgender pornography genres known forced feminization and sissification, which involve the sexualization of men being made to “become” women or girls through sadomasochistic rituals.
Jacobsen has also saved a significant amount of fetish pornography to his “faves” album, including images from one account run by a man who uses AI in order to alter his face to resemble an underage girl, and another that involves an adult man dressing up as a young girl for sexual reasons.
He also follows hundreds of pornography and “sissy” accounts on Flickr. One particularly disturbing account followed by Jacobsen, Sissyslave Dizzy Miss Sizzy, belongs to a man who creates photos of himself while pretending to be a woman that involve themes of torture, rape, abduction, and sexual violence.
But Ingerslev’s blog post was not just highlighting Jacobsen’s disturbing social media history, but also noting that he was a member of a working group with the Danish Football Union and provided input on “the inclusion of multiple gender identities” in the sport. His inclusion in the working group likely developed as a result of his participation in a women’s volleyball team which, in 2021, resulted in his participation at the EuroGames in Copenhagen. The EuroGames offered “tournaments for female-identified, male-identified, and all genders teams”.
Jacobsen discussed his participation in the tournament on the podcast Trans Sporter Room in 2022 and condemned critics of male participation in women’s sports. “It’s the relentlessness, the lack of other things of their lives and they just keep coming at you,” he said. “They don’t have any qualms about bullying and at the same time they talk about being feminists. As a feminist, one should be an accomplice or an ally.”
“Online, especially on Facebook and Twitter, it’s insane the number people who comment and call us men and say we have an unfair advantage,” he added.
On November 24, 2023, the DBU published a statement announcing that “all genders are welcome in Danish football,” and promising to implement a new position within the organization for a “diversity officer.”
“DBU will make a structural investment for increased diversity. As one of the first things, DBU will hire a diversity officer whose expertise in, among other things, this area will help with inclusion,” the statement reads.
“Towards 2025, the goal is to create the framework for it to become possible in grassroots football for transgender people to play with the gender they identify as… The method is based on self-identification, which has already been introduced in German grassroots football, and the method aims to ensure that everyone feels included and welcome.”
Additionally, the DBU published a guidance on “inclusion” with Jacobsen’s input, which encourages Danish football clubs to permit men to enter women’s locker rooms and changing facilities.
“The dressing situation can be challenging for people with a different gender identity, and it is important that care is taken about the possible challenges, so that the dressing situation does not strain inclusion,” reads the document.
“All parties are encouraged to seek pragmatic solutions for changing facilities, which can satisfy different dressing needs and increase transgender, intersex and non-binary people’s sense of being welcome in community in the locker room.”
While filing a lawsuit seeking financial compensation from Ingerslev, both Jacobsen himself and his supporters have been harassing her online, indicating that the litigation claim is rooted in more than “defamation.”
In a blog post dated March 17, Ingerslev explained that within two days of her original report being published, her web hosting service had disabled access to the article without explanation.
Ingerslev noticed that several anonymous accounts were attempting to sabotage her. In one case, a man discussed on X his attempts to have her entire website removed and scrubbed from internet archives. Another account, using the name Marcus Mührmann-Lund, attempted to tarnish the reputation of Ingerslev’s psychotherapy consultation service, Angst-Strategier.
“Owner with serious mental and moral problems,” begins the negative review for Ingerslev’s company. “The owner makes a living, among other things, by stalking and exposing vulnerable minorities, in an attempt to oppress them. It gave me an extremely bad taste in my mouth while using the website,” wrote Mührmann-Lund.
Another individual who has been slandering Ingerslev online is presumed to be “queer feminist” Maia Kahlke Lorentzen, who is both administrator and moderator of a trans activist Mastodon community. Lorentzen has featured Jacobsen as a guest on a podcast episode about “inclusivity” titled “Kønskrigerne 2: It’s not about sport.”
But within the Danish trans activist network active on Mastodon, Ingerslev has also had photos of her home shared directly with Jacobsen. On March 7, just one day after she had published her article about Jacobsen, a user known as Cat Schroedinger sent him a GPS aerial photo of her home and included a link directly informing him of her address.
Jacobsen is also a member of an organization known as TransTjek, which calls itself a “research collective” and is made up of anonymous and public members. TransTjek has a history of contacting women’s employers to request their termination for expressing views they deem to be “transphobic”.
In one instance, an email was sent to a woman’s employer after she had written on social media that she did not think trans-identified males should have access to women’s shelters. The email, sent from a member of TransTjek, encouraged her supervisor to fire her.
Jacobsen has publicly thanked TransTjek for their support when announcing his plan to file a defamation suit against Ingerslev.
Since receiving the notice of litigation on August 29, Ingerslev has launched a crowdfunder on GoFundMe to request support for her legal fees. “Now we have – as far as I know – Denmark’s first criminal case with private prosecution for ‘misgendering’. — A man feels offended and harassed by (among other things) – repeatedly – being referred to as a man,” she remarked.
On his own crowdfunder page, Jacobsen claims he has been “violently attacked”. The fetish pornography he made of himself, and his own comments about orgasming “as a girl”, Jacobsen claims is a “baseless accusation” used to promote the view that he is “a danger to women and children.”
“Not only for my sake, but also to ensure that transgender people in the future do not have to go and fear that the same thing will happen to them… It is time to put our foot down and say ‘stop’ to the anti-trans activists,” Jacobsen wrote.
The litigation against Ingerslev parallels a similar situation that occurred last year in the Netherlands. Women’s rights campaigner Lydia Daniel was informed by authorities that she was facing a criminal investigation after being reported to police by a trans-identified male for stating “a woman is an adult human female.”
The man who filed the legal complaint against her, Alexandra Erné, was revealed by Reduxx to having admitted to disturbing fetishes involving the sexualization of his transition, his “lesbianism,” and his continued access to women’s spaces, including the women’s locker room of a local fitness center.
Shockingly, the government-backed Dutch Human Rights Institute condemned Daniel for sharing fetish photos publicly uploaded by Erné, claiming that the images may have been “manipulated” in order to “humiliate” Erné, while referring to him as a woman.
https://reduxx.info/denmark-woman-sued-for-14k-after-misgendering-a-trans-activist-and-sissy-fetishist/
